Hi,
You over thought the problem
You need to go into the 'station mac filter' under 'wireless'
Enter in all the mac addresses on your private network in the list.
This sets up the list of mac addresses that can access the wireless acces point. You have to then apply the changes. Applying the list sets it up so that all other mac addresses are rejected. Note: this does not solve mac address spoofing...
That check box about accessing the router is optional. That is intended if you had a nosey employee/little sister. Generally don't enable that unless you have to. It's just there to further tighten the security. Hope that clears it up for you.
Directions from linksys (Quote):
1. From the "Setup" page, click Advanced
2. When the "Filters" page opens, click on the Wireless tab
3. Make sure all wireless computers are setup to the router, and are currently able to access the internet. Once this is done, click on the Active MAC Table button.
4. Move the "Wireless Active MAC Table" window and click on Edit MAC Filter Settings on the main window.
5. When the "Wireless Group MAC Table" opens, go to the task bar and click on the Wireless Active MAC Table so that window appears.
6. With the two windows side by side enter the MAC Addresses from the "Wireless Active MAC Table" window into the Wireless Group MAC Table.
Note: When you enter the MAC Addresses do not include the dashes/semi-colon, and do not click "Filter"
7. Click Apply then Continue in the "Wireless Group MAC Table" window.
8. Close the "Wireless Group MAC Table" window and the "Wireless Active MAC Table" window
9. On the Main window Enable the Station MAC Filter setting.
-Bowen